[ Singles & Dating ] Open Question : Why is my GF so hard to deal with?

[ Singles & Dating ] Open Question : Why is my GF so hard to deal with?

She puts value on education. She tries too hard to be everything. She
focuses everything more on her critical thinking skills rather than
feeling/emotion. So when dealing with her, she's always over-thinking.
analytical, objective, intolerant, harsh, sarcastic, avoidant, etc. I try
to reason with her/communicate and express myself and she says I'm trying
to cause arguments. But she wont listen to my points, and she'll come with
her own points and expect me to understand them, and then gets mad at me
when I don't and she tries to make me feel bad for it - is it because she
wants to be in control? She'll blame me for everything and try to play me
back at my own "game" but I have NO games to play. She does this to avoid
everything instead of facing what I have to say to her. Then she
constantly tries to tell me her character is bad and she's very uncaring
and selfish. When I met her, I loved her sense of humor and her
intelligence. I understood her from the start. She wanted me to help her
before our relationship because she was emotionally broken, damaged, etc -
supposedly. I put in so much to care and support her and she went to a
psychologist twice but quit. She told me lastnight that I have a wonderful
character and she's envious of my qualities. She said I can draw, I have
talent, I'm craft, perserverant, I care about people, I'm a good man, I
remind her of her brother in alot of ways, I'm sweet and kind, I can read
people so well, I'm patient and understanding, I accept people and I am
nurturing, I'm sweet with my family, I have a great sense of humor, that
I'm sensitive and sometimes a big wimp, and that I touch her deeply
emotionally and she's been so emotional since being with me. She said I
was very intelligent and loved that about me. She said that the only thing
that was bad but she still liked was how I can be very craft and cunning,
and that it takes brains to flip people around and it takes skill. She
see's me with my friends doing this, and she's scared of being played so
she turns into a huge bossy controlling *****, bug shes already this by
nature - it's in her personality. She comes from a broken home and moved
around alot as a kid because of instability. She lives outside of her
native country and hasnt seen her father in 6 years he emotionally
abandoned her. She has no social skills and doesn't have any friends. I
tried and tried helping every aspect of her personality and it just caused
complications all throughout the entire process. She would try to be
strong-minded, and she would negate all my help and make me feel useless.
She wouldn't be honest with herself and she still is this way.She NEVER
admits things to herself. She can be so critical though, and she doesn't
realize that it just causes anxiety for her and creates misery. Everything
has a meaning to her... EVERYTHING. She needs to relax but wont listen to
me.... she makes excuses and says she likes being that way.... and how
important it is to be that way. She seems to be over-compensating for
something she has lacked. She has absolutely no knowledge of people
problems... she has no understanding of human behavior. She can be so
naive and gullible. She can be impulsive and alot of times talks from her
*** but says things with so much conviction. A few months ago, she
hitch-hiked a ride to class from some stranger - that's how naive she is.